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Sometimes, life brings certain people in front of
us with whom we always think we won’t be comfortable talking to. I'm glad, I've stayed out of my comfort zone for a long time, and now, I feel comfortable out there.
We can change a situation by changing our perspective, and if we can’t, we can always step out of the situation, and become an observer. If we connect that situation with the person we start hating the person instead of the situation. That person and the situation becomes inseperable , and then there is nothing we can change about it. It only leads to bitterness. We can’t keep on blaming people for whatever reason. At certain point of time, we have to forgive, and let go.
Last week was quite tough for me. A cousin of mine
had come down from U.S. for sometime. All of my cousins here had decided to get
together at my place. My husband was not in town, and I was a bit nervous. He
kept on reassuring me that everything will go well. I’m glad, we all had a great time together,
remembering the good old days.
~~payal~~#MondayMusings
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Letting go is the hardest of all. I am yet to learn that art. Glad to read that you are able to do that. :)
ReplyDeleteI still struggle with it sometimes, Vinitha, but that's how life is. Atleast, I am happy, I don't get stuck. :)
DeleteI hv realised its hings that we worry abt the most that pass off without a glitch and vice-versa
ReplyDeleteThat's so true!
DeleteThe concept of forgiving is easier said than done. Having said that, I would love to develop a forgiving nature because only then, I'll be a better person than I am today. Thanks for writing this post!
ReplyDeleteyes, but it's not impossible. :)
DeleteWhat you have said in the lines about changing perspectives and becoming an observer if the situation does not seem favourable makes so much sense. However, it comes with a lot of practice and that takes time.
ReplyDeleteThe way we handle situations is more important. We all are learning.. :)
DeleteLife teaches us some lessons that no matter how sheltered and protected we are, we all must undergo! Your post brought back memories of my experiences which stressed me out a lot but also taught me things that living in the comfort zone would never have taught! Thanks for sharing this post with us :-)
ReplyDeleteDifficult times teach us the most difficult lessons. :)
DeleteI liked this sentence and agree with it
ReplyDelete"We can change a situation by changing our perspective, and if we can’t, we can always step out of the situation, and become an observer."
Thank you so much. :)
DeleteLike they say, beyond the comfort zone lies the glory of life..!
ReplyDeleteCheers
Indeed! Thanks.:)
DeleteEnjoyed this thank you so much
ReplyDeleteThank you. :)
DeleteAccept the present Now.. helps us in letting go of things which hurts, only us.
ReplyDeletePS:- This keychain was used for my new bi-cycle .. and i thought it will bring the change .. hahha it did ..u know the story .
Yes, only us. Otherwise who else cares?
DeleteP.S. Hahaha!I know the story. Come over, we'll have coffee. :)
Beautiful message and I am glad you were able to spend time with your family :)
ReplyDeleteLEtting go is so difficult for me. I keep on churning things. However, now am practicing the art of being an onlooker, to begin with it has given good results..my experience.
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